Growing Happy Families

Pushing Buttons & Fighting Battles

December 07, 2021 Kim Lee-Own Season 1 Episode 9
Pushing Buttons & Fighting Battles
Growing Happy Families
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Growing Happy Families
Pushing Buttons & Fighting Battles
Dec 07, 2021 Season 1 Episode 9
Kim Lee-Own

In this episode, Kim & Mairi talk about how sometimes our 'parent' buttons get pushed and we jump into protective mode, and come out all ready for a fight! 

Often this button is more related to something that was a sensitive spot for ourselves as children and is not necessarily in our child's best interests. 

If we look at the bigger picture, we can see that our job as a parent is to prepare children for being grown-up. Therefore,  it might serve them better if we allow (where it's safe and possible for them to do so), the children to learn to find their own solutions to challenges. 

We look at how this might be achieved.


If you like this podcast and would like to keep in touch, please visit my website, where you can sign up for my newsletter and occasional events notifications. You will get a free pdf with information about the Five Secrets to Happy Children, a super simple system to help raise confident, responsible, independent (and happy!) kiddos.

You can follow on Facebook and Instagram or LinkedIn

You can contact me at kim@heartfeltthinking.com

Thanks for listening !

Show Notes

In this episode, Kim & Mairi talk about how sometimes our 'parent' buttons get pushed and we jump into protective mode, and come out all ready for a fight! 

Often this button is more related to something that was a sensitive spot for ourselves as children and is not necessarily in our child's best interests. 

If we look at the bigger picture, we can see that our job as a parent is to prepare children for being grown-up. Therefore,  it might serve them better if we allow (where it's safe and possible for them to do so), the children to learn to find their own solutions to challenges. 

We look at how this might be achieved.


If you like this podcast and would like to keep in touch, please visit my website, where you can sign up for my newsletter and occasional events notifications. You will get a free pdf with information about the Five Secrets to Happy Children, a super simple system to help raise confident, responsible, independent (and happy!) kiddos.

You can follow on Facebook and Instagram or LinkedIn

You can contact me at kim@heartfeltthinking.com

Thanks for listening !